Photojournalist GMB Akash is touching many people around the world right now, thanks to a special post he wrote on Facebook.
In it, he tells the story of a poor father who works hard every day for his children to go to school. Something he himself never had the opportunity to do.
The dad, named Idris, says: “I never told my children what my job was. I never wanted them to feel ashamed because of me. When my youngest daughter asked me what I did, I used to tell her hesitantly that I was a labourer.”
But this was far from the truth.
Often children have no idea the sacrifices their parents make in order to provide them with the best in life. Children tend to focus on more superficial things, mostly because when they are younger, they are less likely to understand the harsh realities of life.
This father told his heartwrenching story. How he hid his truth from his kids but how eventually he realized what was really important in life.
Keep reading to learn about this story which will definitely end up leaving you with a new perspective.
I never told my children what my job was. I never wanted them to feel ashamed because of me. When my youngest daughter asked me what I did, I used to tell her hesitantly that I was a labourer.
Before I went back home every day, I used to take bath in public toilets so they did not get any hint of the work I was doing. I wanted to send my daughters to school, to educate them. I wanted them to stand in front of people with dignity. I never wanted anyone to look down upon them like how everyone did to me. People always humiliated me.
I invested every penny of my earnings for my daughters’ education. I never bought a new shirt, instead used the money for buying books for them.
Respect, which is all I wanted them to earn for me. I was a cleaner.
The day before the last date of my daughter’s college admission, I could not manage to get her admission fees. I could not work that day. I was sitting beside the rubbish, trying hard to hide my tears.
All my coworkers were looking at me but no one came to speak to me. I had failed and felt heartbroken.
I had no idea how to face my daughter who would ask me about the admission fees once I got back home.
I am born poor. I believed nothing good can happen to a poor person. After work all the cleaners came to me, sat beside and asked if I considered them as brothers. Before I could answer, they handed me their one day’s income.
When I tried to refuse everyone; they confronted by saying, ‘We will starve today if needed but your daughter has to go to college.’
I couldn’t reply them. That day I did not take a shower, I went back to my house like a cleaner.
My daughter is going to finish her University very soon. Three of them do not let me go to work anymore. She has a part-time job and three of them do tuition. But often she takes me to my working place. Feeds all my coworkers along with me.
They laugh and ask her why she feeds them so often. My daughter told them, ‘All of you starved for me that day so I can become what I am today, pray for me that I can feed you all, every day.’
Nowadays I don’t feel like I am a poor man. Whoever has such children, how can he be poor!
– Idris
We sometimes forget the sacrifices our parents make for us. This dad has done so much for his daughters all out of pure, unconditional love for them.
I hope that our loving parents — and this dad — get the thanks and recognition that they deserve.
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